■ jQuery.tubeplayer.js ↓（ダウンロードは下記サイトの画面右下【Download ZIP】から）

https://github.com/nirvanatikku/jQuery-TubePlayer-Plugin

コードは下記のようになります

<script src="jquery.js"></script>
<script src="jQuery.tubeplayer.min.js"></script>
<div id='player'></div>
<script>
jQuery("#player").tubeplayer({
	width: 600, // the width of the player
	height: 450, // the height of the player
	allowFullScreen: "true", // true by default, allow user to go full screen
	initialVideo: "[some video id]", // the video that is loaded into the player
	preferredQuality: "default",// preferred quality: default, small, medium, large, hd720
	onPlay: function(id){}, // after the play method is called
	onPause: function(){}, // after the pause method is called
	onStop: function(){}, // after the player is stopped
	onSeek: function(time){}, // after the video has been seeked to a defined point
	onMute: function(){}, // after the player is muted
	onUnMute: function(){} // after the player is unmuted
});
</script>

簡単ですね。